All of us want that special soul mate connection. But what are the signs you should look out for that tell you that you’ve encountered a soul- mate connection? There’s five main hints the universe gives us that are all tied up with a little bit of magic and a dash of synchronicity. Check out that new connection (or an existing one) and see if there’s more going on than meets the eye!
1: You meet someone then unexpectedly run into them again a short time later. Maybe there was an instant spark there and you may have even exchanged contact details. But whether you have done or not, when and where you least expect it, you run into them again. Pay attention. The universe could just be working to bring the two of you together.
2: You discover you almost connected many times in the past. It’s all a bit of fate and Quantum Entanglement going on. What Einstein referred to as ‘spooky action at a distance’ also occurs between soul connections. As you get to know the person you find that time and time again in the past you ‘almost’ connected. This can be anything from being at the same event, the same place or knowing the same people at some point but the timing was not quite right so you missed each other by hours or even minutes. It’s all a bit like Sliding Doors but again, this is another sign the universe has been working at bringing about your meeting.
3: You have an intense emotional reaction to them. You either ‘click’ at once or else – just the opposite occurs. There have been many, many instances I know of where people have encountered their soul partner and initially dislike them on sight! I know of one case of a couple who have been happily married for 25 years in one of the most romantic marriages I know of, but initially when they met the now-wife could not stand him and said to the mutual friend who introduced them that she never wanted to see him again! Often our higher selves know more than we do and pick up the importance of the meeting before we are aware of it. This can trigger our ‘fight or flight’ response as we know there is serious soul work ahead! Or we fear the very thing we want most of all and try running from it! Understand that a soul mate connection may not be ‘instant karma’ but may involve us confronting our own barriers or our preconceptions. Oh, and just so you know in the case I mentioned above – the next time she met him they talked for hours and she never left! Be open.
4: They don’t have an agenda. Soul mate connections come in all shapes and sizes and across all kinds of relationships. If someone wants to help you but seems to want nothing in return, this is a sign you are dealing with a soul mate. So, a soul mate could even be a boss who supports your career and helps you move forward, a teacher who devotes that extra time to you, someone who backs your idea or believes in you, a friend who is always there for you, no matter what. All these are soul mates.
5: They help you grow. One sure sign you are dealing with a soul mate is that they help you grow on a human, emotional and spiritual level and they open doors for you into new worlds of possibility and experience. Understand that this can be positive and negative. Strangely enough, gaining the strength to leave an abusive relationship is a soul mate test! Soul contracts take many forms and this may not always be all wine and roses. Just because the soul connection exists does not mean you have to stay with someone who does not respect you or care for you. You could have both agreed before coming here that this lifetime you would work on your inner strength and confidence by having this experience.
However, most soul mate connections are all about expanding each other’s worlds and evolving to become all you can be together usually through positive shared experiences. So, as well as a partner or a friend, a soul mate can also be an animal. If it’s a growth connection – it’s a soul mate connection – of that you can be sure!
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