Let’s face it – our biggest soul growth opportunities come about through our intimate relationships. So, on a spiritual level it’s no wonder that finding that special soul connection is a top priority for most of us. On top of that of course, we are spiritual beings having this human experience and human beings are hard-wired to connect. We all need love and emotional connection. Given all this it’s no surprise that attracting and finding love is a subject that dominates not only the readings we give but also many of the articles on this site. As the clock of the year turns to spring and the delicious warm weather arrives, if we find ourselves on our own it’s only natural to wonder and hope if someone special will cross our path. If you have been doing everything you can so far, including your Quantum Creating, Cosmic Ordering or whatever system seems right and resonant for you, and your big soul connection has yet to appear, what else can you be doing?
The answer is let passion in and live a passionate life right now – today! You don’t need a partner to be doing that. Letting go and allowing yourself to feel the passion that’s there in every day life rather than relentlessly focussing on your goal is the surest, fastest way to attract that person you’re looking for.
When we’re searching for love it’s all too easy to become desperate without realising it. We start to look for a potential partner in every man/woman we meet instead of being open to whatever the connection may hold for us. The moment we start doing this we not only operate from a place of neediness (which incidentally we will be broadcasting louder than the Rolling Stones taking to the stage at Glasto), but we may unwittingly reject what could be a fabulous connection simply because at first glance the person doesn’t tick the boxes on our checklist. Now, I’m not saying we shouldn’t have a list of qualities we seek in a partner, but just because the person you’ve just met doesn’t meet them doesn’t mean they are not going to be important to you in another way. So be open. The universe works in mysterious ways.
You don’t have to be perfect to attract your perfect mate. The thing is, they’re not perfect either but you could be perfect for each other which is all that matters. But looking for a partner when you’re full of needy holes which will only get bigger the more we focus on the goal, is not the way to attract them. Or if we do, they will be full of holes themselves. LOVE your life the way it is and start doing that today by looking at the things you have in it that already ignite your passion and fire you up. Your life may not be perfect but I am sure you can find things in it that you adore – your pet, your job, your creativity, your family, your friends, an activity you do. Follow your passion by spending more time with the people and things that make you feel alive. When you make a commitment to passion, passion makes the commitment back to you – usually in the form of more things to be passionate about and that includes that special someone.
Live your life joyfully, love your life the way it is right now – without the need for a mate and know that they will come as passion is just about the sexiest thing out there – no matter what form it takes!
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I’ve been creating my Knight-Waite tarot deck for two years.
It has been such a labour of love, I can’t wait to unleash it!
Why not take a little sneak peak?